I like to use the following story of a parent interacting with their 3-year-old to make a point. Parent: “OK Everybody get your shoes on.” 3-year-old: “Why?” Parent: “Because we need to get in the van.” 3-year-old: “Why?” Parent: “Because we need to go to WalMart.” 3-year-old: “Why?” Parent: “Because we need to get some …